Cultivating An Image Of Success

Style, poise and flair are qualities that are difficultlook as if it is. It should have the custom-made
to define, but easy to spot. Everyone knowsdetailing and fit.o Buy quality clothing. You should
someone who is graced with them, and, chancesspend your money on a few pieces of good
are, that person is at or on the way to the topclothing rather than packing your closet with a lot
of his or her profession.of second-rate apparel.o Hair should be neatly
Certainly a winning image isn't the only factor thattrimmed for both men and women. For example,
determines career success, but it is an importantmany business executives say that they don't
component. In today's highly competitive businesstake a man or a woman seriously if they have
world the quest for corporate advancement islong hair.
complicated by the changing nature of theTo have a winning image, good communication
workplace.skills are crucial. In business, the foundation of
Diversity, job mobility and internationalizationeffective communication is empathy, the ability to
present new challenges. Corporate restructuring,understand the needs of coworkers, employees,
downsizing and fierce competition forclients and superiors. The strength of your
advancement mean that success requires morehandshake, tone of voice, and your choice of
than good work and positive attitude. Without thewords all are important to your communication
right professional image, even loyal, reliableand therefore to your overall image.
workers will be more likely to get pink slips thanUsually people know how to relate to those below
merit badges.them but not to those above them. If you want
Many people think that all you need are excellentto establish good rapport with your superiors then
skills to be successful, but in fact, to move up theyou need to show respectful deference in both
corporate ladder today you have to understandbusiness and social situations and avoid any false
image, political skills, and attitude. No one is borncamaraderie.
with a winning image, though some learn it at anMost people are unaware how important a proper
early age. Style is acquired.introduction is to projecting the right image. For
There are seven elements of a person's image;example, when you're at a business function you
color, wardrobe, grooming, image objects,should always introduce the person of lesser
communications, protocol, and etiquette. Mostimportance to the person of greater importance.
people think of image solely in terms ofIf you have a president of a company who is a
appearance and this is not correct. When it comeswoman and a customer who is a man, the
projecting the right image you also must considerwoman should be introduced to the man because
your personal situation and your goals.in that relationship, the customer is the more
If you want to rise to the top of your field youimportant person.
must remember that everything counts. So yourA positive attitude can be the make-or-break
goal should be to look great every day. Whilefactor that separates people headed for the top
color initiates the image-management process youfrom those who will spend their lives in middle
also have to be aware of things like the make ofmanagement. Your attitude towards others is
your shoes and your hairstyle.either the biggest asset or biggest liability in
The biggest problem for aspiring executives isbusiness because it is connected to your "inner
appearance and the nothing does more to add toimage." Your inner image is the reputation and
or take away from a person's image than color.relationship you have with yourself regarding your
The best colors for a given situation varyself-image, belonging, purpose, and competence.
according to the role a person will have in it.The first step in improving your inner image is to
For example, you should keep your colorexamine your perceptions of yourself and others.
combinations subdued if you want to blend in andThe best way to do is by examining your
not outclass the boss, or if you just want tolifestyle, relationships and goals. Ask yourself a
gather information without drawing attention. Ifcouple important questions: "If you could make a
you are a leader, though, you need a high level ofwish list, what would you change? What do you
contrast in your clothing to create a powerfullike about yourself?" The answers to these
look.questions will help you find out what your values
In addition to your choice of colors, there areare.
many other details that you need to payProjecting the right image is internal. It will raise
attention to in projecting the right image:o Wearyour awareness and cause you to have a more
quality shoes in current fashions. Shoes shouldpositive and gracious attitude. You'll become more
always be high-quality and new-looking.o Handbagssensitive visually, kinesthetically and aurally.
should be new, but briefcases don't need to be.To move up the ladder of success you must
Like shoes, handbags should be exemplary.always put your best foot forward in everything
Briefcases, on the other hand, should look likeyou do, from appearance to environment to the
they are good quality but have been used for away you treat others. The rest is up to you!
long time.o The appropriate shirt style depends onCopyright©2007 by Joe Love and JLM
your audience. A good rule of thumb for dress& Associates, Inc.
shirts is, if your shirt is not custom-made, it should