I've Been Laid Off, Now What?

The financial crisis has caused companies acrossyour job search. Many times individuals have
the nation to lay off thousands of workers.come to me expressing regret after hurdling
Everywhere people are feeling the pinch asthemselves into a job search with unclear goals,
companies in every industry segment react tosecond-rate or outdated marketing materials, and
the market. Below are five common mistakeswhile still nursing their wounds from a job loss.
individuals make after a layoff and suggestions forRather than accelerating your job search, rushing
avoiding them.into a job hunt before you are ready will
#1 Interviewing before you are emotionally ready.negatively impact your candidacy and can
I met Bob the day after he let his anger over hissignificantly increase the time it takes to find your
job loss erupt at a job fair. Bob was really upsetnext job. Hiring managers can smell fear and
about being laid off. After all, he was a long-termdesperation. They want to hire well-qualified
employee, did a good job, and had a familypeople who are genuinely interested in the
support.company and the position, not those who look like
He put together a résumé andthey are running from something else.
decided to attend a large job fair in Silicon Valley.Take time to repack your bags. When you leave
Nearly a thousand people showed up at the jobfor a trip, do you start with a suitcase packed
fair. Bob found that he had to wait in long lines towith dirty laundry, used toothpaste containers,
talk with a company representative. By the timeand leftover trash? Of course not. Likewise, when
it was his turn, he was fairly seething. The hiringtaking the next step in your career journey, you
manager accepted his résumé,want to begin by taking a fresh look at yourself
asked him a few questions and then determinedand your marketing materials. Identify your key
that the company didn't have any positions thatskills and career accomplishments. Develop a
were a good match for his skills.focused-résumé, reference list,
With that Bob exploded, shouting, "You're justand other collateral materials.
stupid," effectively ending the conversation andWhile it is tempting to jump into the game
attracting stares from job seekers andimmediately, smart job seekers know the
representatives from other companies.benefits of assessing where they want to go and
Bob made several mistakes - the first one wasmaking a plan to get there. What most job
attempting to interview before he wasseekers don't understand is that the hiring wheels
emotionally ready. His second mistake was takingturn slowly. The few extra days or weeks you
his anger out on the very person who could havespend preparing yourself and your materials will go
helped him, now or in the future. Bob could havea long way toward getting you a second look
asked the hiring manager for feedback on hiswhen your résumé gets into the
résumé. Or, if he was convincedhands of the right people.
the person wasn't qualified to review his#4 Being embarrassed about looking for a job.
credentials, he could have come back later in theOften job seekers are embarrassed about being
day when a different representative would be atout of work and keep the fact that they are
the booth. In any event, he blew his chances withlooking for work a closely guarded secret - on par
that company and every other company withinwith disclosing government intelligence activities.
earshot. This being a small world, he also ruined hisDon't make the same mistake that one former
chances with any future company for whom "Mr.client made. This proud professional, a gentleman
Stupid" might work.in his 50's, refused to tell his mother or other
Letting your anger get the best of you during aclose friends that he had been laid off. Every day,
job search just doesn't work. Do yourself a favorhe dressed for work, stopped off at mom's and
and get your emotions under control before youthen pretended to head off to his job instead of
start interviewing.a career center where he spent his days combing
#2 Complaining loudly to your 100 closest friends.the want ads in search of the perfect job. Sadly,
During the years I worked in corporatehis search was a long, painful one.
outplacement, I saw people ruin their reputationsOnce you have decided on your target, have
and burn countless bridges in the hours and daysyour marketing materials ready to go, and have
after receiving a layoff notice. Furious about whatcome to terms with your job loss, share your
they considered to be an unfair situation, theycareer and job goals with everyone you know.
vented their anger on anyone and everyone who#5 Insisting that every day of your career be
would listen. They spoke out negatively aboutincluded in your marketing materials.
their company and supervisor to the very people,When IBM was going through a major
inside and outside of the organization, who wouldreorganization and downsizing Jane, a customer
be in a position to help them during their jobservice engineer, came to see me. She was a
search.talented individual who had moved up through the
Being angry and wanting to vent after a job lossranks as a result of hard work. Although only in
are appropriate responses. The key is knowingher 50's, she had worked for IBM for 30 years.
when and with whom it makes sense to vent.She was not ready to retire. The company made
Sharing your feelings with close family and friendsit clear that it she should consider their buyout
in the privacy of your home makes good sense.package now or face an almost certain lay off
Sharing your feelings loudly with your 100 closestwith no severance package in the coming months.
friends at the office or in public, by phone, or viaJane was very proud of the time she spent at
mass emails doesn't. While doing so might feelIBM and insisted that every day of it be
good initially, in the long run it will damage youraccounted for on her résumé
credibility and limit your effectiveness whenwhether it was relevant or not. She wanted credit
networking.for her 30 years of work.
Instead, ask questions, listen, and take notes. AskThe problem was that rather than seeing a vital,
your manager for information about the length ofcapable individual able to make substantial
the layoff notice period, health-care benefitscontributions for another 10 to 15 years, potential
during the transition, arrangements foremployers assumed she was over the hill and
outplacement counseling, and how references willready for the rocking chair. After nearly a year of
be handled.unemployment, I finally convinced her to limit the
Then, take time to work through your feelingsinformation on the résumé to
with those you love and trust. Learn from thewhat was relevant - roughly the last fifteen
experience of losing a job and find a way toyears. Within four months, she had three offers
capture and tell the essential elements of yourand took the one that best suited her.
story in a meaningful way during interviews.When marketing yourself, sell what is relevant and
#3 Rushing into the job search.nothing more.
As panicked as you might feel, don't rush into